This version of the pledge is not yet finalized.
The "Dim Sum Lovestyle"™ pledge (v20120601)
I pledge to savor love, like dim sum.
I pledge to honor each of my lovers for who they are and to accept their imperfections without judgment.
I pledge to respect their time and to be grateful for that gift.
I pledge to respect their desire for privacy and anonymity.
I pledge to always act with integrity in all my relationships whether I am anonymous to my lovers or not. That means...
I pledge to honor each of my lovers for who they are and to accept their imperfections without judgment.
I pledge to respect their time and to be grateful for that gift.
I pledge to respect their desire for privacy and anonymity.
I pledge to always act with integrity in all my relationships whether I am anonymous to my lovers or not. That means...
- I will clearly define and communicate my scopes of exclusivity.
- I will be open about my real-life commitments and the possibility (or impossibility) of a virtual-world relationship turning into a real-world one.
- I will use alts with integrity and never to deceive.
- I will preserve the trust in the relationship by choosing to saying that I am not comfortable revealing some information, instead of making up a falsehood.
- I will respect the rights of others to decide what to reveal about themselves or not.